Family Reunion · FAMILY REUNION GUIDE

Complete Guide to Three-Generation Family Reunion Getaways (2026)

Author: Cuixi Villa, Zhangzhou Changtai (Cuixi Villa, Changtai District, Zhangzhou City)

Villa Selection · Elder- & Child-Friendly · Itinerary · Packing List
By: Cuixi Villa Butler Team · Updated August 2026

A three-generation family vacation sounds heartwarming but is a headache to pull off. The elders want quiet and comfort, the kids want safe fun, and the middle generation wants minimal hassle — hard to please everyone. Choose a hotel and everyone stays in separate rooms with no atmosphere; choose a homestay and the quality varies, risking a bad experience. This article systematically breaks down the pain points and needs of three-generation vacations, explains why a whole-villa is the best choice, and how to choose and plan for the most worry-free experience.

What Chinese people value most is "reunion". Being together as a family, even just sharing a meal or a chat, is the happiest thing. But everyone is busy in daily life and rarely all together. So every family reunion feels especially precious — grandparents want to see the grandkids, siblings want to catch up, and the kids want to play with their cousins.

But the organizer of a family reunion (usually the most capable person in the family) often wears themselves out: where to stay? what to eat? will the elders be inconvenienced? will the kids be unsafe? will everyone be bored? After the reunion, the organizer is exhausted and hardly enjoyed it.

This article is here to solve these problems for you. Based on Cuixi Villa's experience hosting hundreds of family gatherings, we summarized all the pain points and solutions for three-generation vacations — from room selection to itinerary, from dining to safety, fully covered. After reading this, you too can easily organize a family reunion that satisfies everyone.

Quick Read: 8 Core Conclusions — Read These First

💡 If you don't want to read the long version, just remember these 8 points
  1. A whole-villa is the top choice for three-generation vacations — private, safe, fully equipped; being together is what makes it a reunion
  2. The core of choosing a villa: convenience for elders (accessible, quiet), safety for kids (protection, entertainment), ease for the middle generation (one-stop)
  3. A 10-person family picks 4–5 rooms, 15 people pick 6 rooms, 20 people pick 7 rooms; for more, combine two villas
  4. Cuixi Villa's 7-bedroom whole-villa with a 1,200㎡ courtyard + mountain-spring pool + slide family room is the ideal choice for family reunions
  5. Don't over-pack the reunion itinerary; leaving enough free time together matters more than anything

I. Pain Points and Needs Analysis for Three-Generation Vacations

The difficulty of a three-generation vacation lies in the three generations' completely different needs. Elders have their concerns, kids have their needs, and the middle generation is sandwiched between old and young, the most tired. Below we first clarify the three generations' pain points and needs, to find a truly suitable solution.

1.1 Elders' Pain Points and Needs

For elders traveling, what matters most is comfort, convenience, and safety. Specifically:

Comfortable lodging: a firmer bed, a quiet room, good air. Too-soft beds hurt elders' backs; too-noisy environments ruin their sleep. Ideally a private bathroom, not shared.

Easy access: not too much walking or stairs. Ideally the car reaches the door, no dragging luggage far. Best if there's an elevator or a room on the first floor.

Palatable food: elders generally prefer light, soft food, not too stimulating or greasy. Ideally hot soup and congee, with regular meal times.

Safety guaranteed: non-slip floors, grab bars in bathrooms, night lighting. If unwell, a hospital nearby is best.

Not lonely: not necessarily bustling, but family companionship and conversation. Ideally a place to sit and chat, with tea and TV.

1.2 Children's Pain Points and Needs

For kids traveling, what matters most is fun, safety, and freedom. Specifically:

Things to play with: pool, slide, toys, playmates… these are kids' "must-haves". If the vacation spot isn't fun, kids act up and adults get no peace.

Safe enough: corners padded, pool protected, sockets covered, stairs fall-proof. Safety is the baseline; any safety incident ruins the whole vacation.

Room to roam: kids are energetic and need space to run and jump. Stuck in a room all day, they go stir-crazy. Ideally a yard, lawn, and outdoor space.

Familiar food: kids are picky and need kid-friendly food. Not all adult heavy flavors — there must be light options kids like.

1.3 The Middle Generation's Pain Points and Needs

As the "sandwich layer" with old above and young below, the middle generation are the organizers and main force of family reunions; their pain points are:

Too tired: from booking rooms and meals to planning the itinerary, all on their shoulders. On-site they still care for elders and watch kids, getting almost no rest.

Too worried: afraid elders are uncomfortable, kids unsafe, everyone eats poorly, the itinerary too dull. Heart on edge, always "putting out fires".

No atmosphere: in a hotel, everyone stays in separate rooms, gathering only at meals — no sense of "reunion" at all.

Expensive: several hotel rooms add up to a high total, yet the experience is mediocre.

1.4 Why a Whole-Villa Is the Best Solution

A whole-villa almost perfectly solves all the above pain points:

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Whole family together

In one villa, chat in the living room, eat in the dining room, stroll in the yard — everyone can meet anytime; this is what reunion feels like.

👵 More comfort for elders

An elder room can be arranged on the first floor, no stairs. The kitchen can make light food. The yard is good for slow strolls.

👶 Safer for kids

The whole villa is enclosed, no worry about kids running out. Dedicated kids' rooms and play facilities. Adults chat while kids play, always visible.

💆 Ease for the middle generation

One-stop service — the butler arranges dining, activities, and setup; you only need to accompany family. No running around.

💰 Higher cost-performance

20 people in a 7-bedroom whole-villa, just over 400 yuan/person — cheaper than 10 hotel rooms, plus pool, KTV, courtyard, etc.

📸 More memorable

Group photos in one villa, courtyard dinners, living-room chats — these are the most precious memories.

Many think villas must be expensive, but for a three-generation extended family, the per-person cost of a whole-villa is often lower than a hotel — one villa fits a dozen or twenty people, while a hotel needs seven or eight rooms, adding up to more. More importantly, the "whole family together" experience a villa brings is something a hotel can never provide.

II. Room Allocation Plans: Suggestions by Family Size

Choosing a room type for a family reunion isn't just about "enough beds" but how to allocate sensibly — which room for elders, which for kids, which for couples, all matter. Good allocation means everyone is comfortable; poor allocation means someone makes do or is inconvenienced. Below, by three common family sizes — 10, 15, 20 people — we give allocation suggestions.

2.1 10-Person Small Family (4-Room Villa)

A small family of around 10 (e.g., grandparents + two nuclear families) suits a 4-room whole-villa. Cuixi Villa's 4-room is ¥4,980 on weekdays, for about 10 people.

🏠 10-Person Family Room Allocation (4 rooms)
Room 1 (1st floor / quiet room) Grandparents / maternal grandparents no stairs, quiet, close to bathroom
Room 2 (king room) Eldest's family of three large room with small bed, or extra bed
Room 3 (twin / family room) Second's family of three slide family room is the kids' favorite
Room 4 (standard / twin) Other relatives / friends flexible arrangement

2.2 15-Person Family (5–6 Room Villa)

A family of around 15 (grandparents + three nuclear families + relatives) suits a 5- or 6-room whole-villa. Cuixi Villa's 5-room is ¥5,780 on weekdays (~14 people), 6-room ¥6,980 (~18 people).

🏠 15-Person Family Room Allocation (6 rooms)
Room 1 (1st-floor elder room) Grandparents first floor preferred, easy access
Room 2 (large master suite) Eldest's family of three spacious, good with kids
Room 3 (slide family room) Second's family + kids has slide, kids' favorite
Room 4 (twin room) Third's couple comfortable standard room
Room 5 (twin room) Aunt / uncle and other relatives flexible arrangement
Room 6 (flexible) Nanny / driver / spare better to keep one spare

2.3 20-Person Extended Family (7-Room Villa)

An extended family of around 20 (grandparents + three or four nuclear families + grandkids + relatives) suits a 7-room whole-villa. Cuixi Villa's 7-room is ¥8,180 on weekdays, sleeps about 22, the most spacious.

🏠 20-Person Extended Family Room Allocation (7 rooms)
Room 1 (1st-floor honored-elder room) Grandparents / great-grandparents must be on 1st floor, no stairs
Room 2 (large master) Eldest son's whole family (3–4) spacious and comfortable
Room 3 (slide family room) Second son's family + little grandson has slide, childlike fun
Room 4 (twin / king) Daughter / son-in-law + grandson private bathroom
Room 5 (twin) Aunt / uncle's family two elders or small family
Room 6 (twin) Cousins young people together, lively
Room 7 (flexible spare) Nanny / driver / spare keep one spare for peace of mind

A few allocation principles: ① Elders must be on the first floor or nearest the bathroom — this is the baseline; ② Families with kids get the family room or large room, since kids have lots of stuff and need space; ③ Young people can be on higher floors, stairs are no problem; ④ Keep one spare room, extended-family trips have many variables, an extra room brings ease.

III. Aging-Friendly Design Details: Let Elders Stay Safe and Comfortable

When traveling with elders, how well the elder-friendly details are done directly determines their experience and safety. Many homestays look pretty but are unfriendly to elders — many stairs, slippery floors, dim lights, no grab bars. Cuixi Villa pays special attention to elder-friendly details in design and operation; below are some of our practices and suggestions.

3.1 Accessible Circulation: Reduce Walking and Stairs

What elders fear most is walking too much and climbing stairs. Good aging-friendly design should let elders go from car to room, room to dining, dining to yard with minimal walking, climbing, and no barriers.

First-floor elder room: Cuixi Villa has dedicated elder rooms on the first floor, no stairs, opening right to the living room and yard — very convenient. The room is also close to the bathroom, so night trips are short.

Car to door: vehicles can park at the villa entrance; elders step out and are at the door in a few steps, no dragging luggage far.

Single-level circulation: the first-floor living room, dining room, kitchen, and yard are all on one level, with no steps or thresholds; wheelchairs can pass (please inform us in advance if a wheelchair is needed).

3.2 Slip-Resistant Safety: Bathrooms and Floors Are Key

Most elder falls happen in bathrooms. Slip resistance is the top priority of aging-friendly design.

Bathroom slip resistance: anti-slip mats on the bathroom floor, non-slip foot mats in the shower. Grab bars in the bathroom (some layouts), assist bars by the toilet.

Floor slip resistance: public areas use slip-resistant materials, not slippery even in rain. The yard's stone paths are treated for slip resistance.

Night lighting: corridors and stairs have night lights, so night trips needn't be in the dark. Bedside lamps with well-placed switches.

3.3 Quiet Rooms: Ensure Elders' Sleep Quality

Elders are light sleepers, waking at the slightest noise. A quiet room is very important to them.

Away from noise: elder rooms are placed away from the KTV and living room, so evening singing and chatting won't disturb their rest.

Good soundproofing: walls between rooms are sound-insulated; with the door closed you basically can't hear next door.

Good blackout: curtains block light well; elders who sleep early and rise early won't be woken by early sunlight.

3.4 Dining Customization: Meal Arrangements for Elders

Elders' dietary needs differ from young people's — light, soft, regular. Family-reunion dining must accommodate elders' needs.

Dishes adjustable: Cuixi Villa's dining can be customized — light, low-salt, soft; all can be requested in advance. The group meal can include several dishes suited to elders.

Congee and soup: breakfast has porridge, steamed buns, eggs, suited to elders' tastes. Main meals can include stewed soup — nutritious and digestible.

Flexible timing: elders eat at regular times; dining times can adjust to the family's routine. No need to rush meal times like in a hotel.

3.5 Medical Preparedness: Better Safe Than Sorry

Traveling with elders, medical backup is the baseline. Though we hope not to need it, preparation is essential.

First-aid kit: the villa is stocked with common medicines and a first-aid kit (band-aids, disinfectant, cold medicine, stomach medicine, motion-sickness medicine, etc.).

Nearby hospital: Cuixi Villa is about 15 min from Changtai District Hospital and about 30 min from Zhangzhou City Hospital, ensuring medical resources.

Butler available 24/7: during the stay, the butler's phone is reachable around the clock; contact anytime with any issue.

Suggestion: when traveling with elders, bring all regular medicines (anti-hypertensive, anti-diabetic, heart medicine, etc.) and remind them to take medicine on time. Best to carry a copy of the elder's medical record and emergency contact info.

IV. Child-Friendly Design Details: Keep Kids Safe and Happy

Traveling with kids, safety is the baseline and happiness the goal. A good family-reunion villa should let kids play happily and adults be at ease. Cuixi Villa has many child-friendly design details; introduced below.

4.1 Safety Protection: Eliminate Hazards from the Details

Children's safety is always first. Many hazards in a villa — stairs, pool, power, table corners, glass… any can cause trouble. Good child-friendly design should eliminate these hazards in advance.

Pool safety: the pool is fenced with a safety lock on the gate, children can't open it casually. Life rings and a rescue pole by the pool. For families with children, the butler reminds of pool safety.

Stair protection: stairs have handrails and anti-slip strips on steps. Families with babies can request a stair safety gate (inform in advance).

Furniture protection: sharp table and cabinet corners are rounded or padded. Sockets have safety covers.

Indoor monitoring: public areas have monitoring (not bedrooms or bathrooms), so you can check on kids in the living room or yard anytime.

4.2 Children's Entertainment: Let Kids Play to Their Heart's Content

When kids are happy, adults get time to relax. A good family villa should have enough children's entertainment facilities.

Slide family room: Cuixi Villa has dedicated slide family rooms with an indoor slide — kids can play on the slide in the room, a young children's favorite. (Available in 5-room-and-up layouts)

Mountain-view pool: in summer the pool is a children's paradise. Pool depth suits children (with shallow area); kids can play in the water. Of course, adults must supervise throughout.

1,200㎡ courtyard: such a large yard lets kids run, jump, ride bikes, play ball, hide and seek… even the most energetic child can be worn out.

KTV and cinema: kids also love singing and cartoons. The 300-inch giant-screen cinema showing cartoons is far better than the TV at home.

Board games and cards: the villa is stocked with various board games, playing cards, mahjong, etc., fun for all ages.

4.3 Family Activities: Happy Times for the Whole Family

What's most precious about family reunions is doing things together. These activities suit three-generation families especially:

Courtyard BBQ: adults grill while kids play nearby, smoke curling and laughter ringing — the warmest scene.

Cooking together: the whole family makes dumplings, glutinous-rice balls, bakes cookies — elders teach, kids learn, both fun and heritage.

Family sports meet: organize a small one in the yard — tug-of-war, relay races, three-legged race… endless laughter.

Open-air movie: watch an outdoor film in the yard at night, adults and kids sitting together snacking and watching — a special feeling.

KTV singing: from grandparents' old songs to kids' nursery rhymes, the whole family sings together, joyful and harmonious.

Nearby outings: by day, take kids to nearby attractions — rafting, go-karts, ancient-village tours; elders can join selectively or rest at the villa.

V. Dining Plans: Satisfy Young and Old Alike

At a family reunion, "eating" is the main event. But tastes vary — elders want light and soft, kids want tasty and pretty, young people want rich and flavorful. How to please everyone? Below are common dining options and when to use them.

5.1 Group Meal: The Most Formal Choice

The group meal (Chinese banquet-style seating) is the most common form at family reunions. A big table of people together, lively, with a strong reunion atmosphere.

Advantages: ceremonial, rich dishes, suited to formal occasions (e.g., birthdays, holiday reunions).
Disadvantages: everyone's taste differs, can't please all; kids may not sit still.
Suited for: elder birthdays, holiday reunions, more formal family gatherings.

Cuixi Villa group meal: 10 per table, 8–12 dishes + 1 soup, with Minnan specialty and home-style dishes to choose. Dishes can be adjusted to taste (light / strong, spicy or not, dietary restrictions, etc.). 80–200 yuan/person.

5.2 BBQ: The Most Joyful Choice

BBQ is the favorite of young people and kids. Set up the grill in the yard, everyone grills and eats themselves, chatting while cooking — great atmosphere.

Advantages: relaxed, interactive, kids love it, suited to informal reunions.
Disadvantages: smoky (fine outdoors), elders may not be used to it, needs someone to grill.
Suited for: weekend family gatherings, families with many kids, summer.

Cuixi Villa BBQ: courtyard grilling with grill, charcoal, tools. We can prepare ingredients (100–180 yuan/person), or you bring your own (only a grill-use fee charged).

5.3 Private Banquet Customization: The Most Premium Choice

For important family events (e.g., an 80th birthday, golden-wedding anniversary), choose private-banquet customization — a private chef comes to the villa, custom menu, refined plating, full of ceremony.

Advantages: high quality, strong ceremony, memorable, suited to important occasions.
Disadvantages: higher price.
Suited for: elder milestone birthdays, golden/diamond-wedding anniversaries, important holidays.

Cuixi Villa private banquet: a private chef can come to the villa for customized birthday or family banquets. Can pair with floral decor and photographer accompaniment. 300–800 yuan/person, customized to needs.

5.4 Special Care: Elder Meals and Children's Meals

At family-reunion dining, elders' and children's dietary needs must get special attention.

Elder-meal notes: ① light, low-salt, low-spice dishes; ② meat stewed soft, vegetables cooked through; ③ congee and soup for digestion; ④ moderate temperature, not too hot; ⑤ respect elders' dietary restrictions (diabetes, hypertension, gout, etc.).

Children's-meal notes: ① colorful, cute shapes (so kids will eat); ② low salt and seasoning, keep original flavors; ③ cut into small pieces for self-feeding; ④ staple + vegetables + meat for balanced nutrition; ⑤ watch allergies (peanuts, seafood, eggs, etc.).

Cuixi Villa's dining customization meets these needs — tell us elders' and children's dietary requirements in advance and we'll arrange specifically.

VI. Two-Day-One-Night Itinerary Template for Family Reunions

The core principle of reunion itinerary planning is: less scheduling, more white space. Don't over-pack; leave enough free time for family to be together. After all, the meaning of reunion is not "how many places visited" but "how long spent together".

🌅 Day 1 Reunion Day
Morning
· Depart separately for Cuixi Villa
· On arrival, check in and settle luggage
· Free time (elders stroll the yard, kids play in the pool)

Noon 12:00–13:30
· Group-meal lunch (first reunion meal)

Afternoon 14:00–17:30
· Free time
· Option A: group nearby outing (rafting / ancient village / hot spring)
· Option B: rest and chat at the villa
· Elders and kids at the villa, young people go out

Evening 17:30–18:30
· Stroll, photo, chat in the yard

Night 18:30–21:00
· BBQ or group-meal dinner
· After-dinner KTV / cards / chat
· Elders can rest early
🌄 Day 2 Warm Day
Morning 8:30–10:00
· Breakfast (no rush, eat slowly)
· Morning exercise in the yard, play with kids

Late morning 10:00–11:30
· Family activity time (recommended)
· Option A: family sports meet (in yard)
· Option B: make dumplings / glutinous-rice balls together
· Option C: family group photo

Noon 12:00–13:30
· Group-meal lunch

Afternoon 14:00
· Pack up, check out, return
· Bring some Changtai specialties home

💡 Suggestion: don't over-pack; leave enough free time together

A few itinerary tips: ① Don't rush — elders and kids move slowly, leave flexible time; ② Split up — young people who want to play can go out, elders who want rest stay at the villa, no forced uniformity; ③ Take lots of photos — group portraits, grandparent-grandchild shots, life moments, all precious memories later; ④ Keep one person "on duty" — for extended-family trips, best to have one person coordinate everything so others relax.

VII. Cuixi Villa's Family-Reunion Advantages Explained

Why is Cuixi Villa especially suited to three-generation family reunions? Beyond the whole-villa privacy and complete facilities, more importantly we understand the meaning of family reunion — not how luxurious the stay is, but how warm being together is. Below are our core advantages.

7.1 Spacious Enough, Everyone in Their Place

A 7-bedroom whole-villa has about 500㎡ indoor area + 1,200㎡ courtyard; over 20 people don't feel crowded. Elders rest quietly on the first floor, young people chat over KTV upstairs, kids run free in the yard. Everyone has their own space yet all under one roof. This is the ideal state of "together but not crowded".

7.2 Complete Facilities, Fun for All Ages

Cuixi Villa's facilities cover all age groups:

👵
For elders
first-floor elder room / yard strolls / light diet
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For the middle generation
KTV / cards / BBQ / butler service
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For kids
slide room / pool / yard / cinema
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Pet-friendly
small & medium pets free / yard to roam

7.3 Butler Service, Worry-Free

The organizer bears the most fatigue at reunions. At Cuixi Villa, you needn't worry — the butler arranges dining, decor, transfers, itinerary; you only accompany family. Many guests say this was their "first worry-free family reunion".

7.4 Convenient Location, Easy Access

Cuixi Villa sits at the core of the Mayangxi Ecotourism Area in Changtai, with convenient transport:

· Self-drive from Xiamen about 45 min
· from Zhangzhou about 30 min
· from Quanzhou about 1.5 hours
· from Chaoshan about 2.5–3 hours

For extended families spread across different cities, Changtai is a good "middle point", convenient for everyone.

7.5 4-Star Credentials, Reliable and Trustworthy

Cuixi Villa is a Changtai District official star-rated homestay (4-star), awarded by the Changtai District Culture, Sports and Tourism Bureau, and is also among Fujian Province's first batch of integrity demonstration homestays. Properly operated with guaranteed service. For a family reunion, choosing a reliable place matters more than anything.

VIII. Notes and Packing Checklist

8.1 Family-Reunion Notes

  1. Book 2–4 weeks ahead — villas are tight on holidays and peak season; the earlier the better
  2. Confirm headcount and room type in advance — especially the number of elders and kids, to arrange suitable rooms
  3. Communicate dietary needs in advance — elders' restrictions, kids' preferences, allergy info; tell the butler ahead
  4. Finalize room allocation in advance — assign rooms before departure, check in directly on arrival, no on-site coordination
  5. Designate a "lead coordinator" — extended-family trips need one person to liaise with the butler, avoiding confusion
  6. Bring elders' regular medicines — anti-hypertensive, anti-diabetic, heart medicine, etc.; don't forget
  7. Mind elders' and kids' safety — poolside, stair tops, kitchen, these danger zones need attention
  8. Take many photos and videos — reunion time is precious; keep more footage for later

8.2 Family-Trip Packing List

👵 Elders' essentials
  • Regular medicines (anti-hypertensive / anti-diabetic / heart, etc.)
  • Blood-pressure monitor, glucose meter (if needed)
  • Comfortable (non-slip) shoes
  • Warm clothing (cool mornings/evenings in the hills)
  • Reading glasses, hearing aid
  • Medical record and emergency contact info
👶 Kids' essentials
  • Change of clothes (pack extra)
  • Swimsuit, float ring, water gun
  • Sun hat, sunscreen
  • Regular medicines (fever, diarrhea, itch relief)
  • Favorite toys / picture books
  • Children's tableware, cup
📷 Keepsake items
  • Camera / phone charger
  • Selfie stick / tripod
  • Family / parent-child outfits
  • Banner / balloons and other decor
  • Birthday cake / longevity peach buns (if needed)
  • Instant camera (on-site photos feel great)
🍴 Dining-related
  • Tea leaves, tea set (elders like these)
  • Snacks, fruit (for the road and tea breaks)
  • Drinks (if bringing your own)
  • BBQ ingredients (if preparing yourself)
  • Birthday cake (if celebrating)
  • Specialty souvenirs (to share when home)

💡 You May Want to Ask · 5 Core Questions Answered Quickly

Q1:What's suitable to stay in for a three-generation family gathering?
The answer: For three generations, we recommend a whole-villa. Elders stay on the first floor with no stairs, young people upstairs, kids run in the yard — everyone under one roof yet with their own space. Cuixi Villa's 7-bedroom detached villa has an elevator, kitchen, private onsen, and a 1,200㎡ yard — especially suited to three-generation families.
Q2:Is it convenient for elders? Is there an elevator?
The answer: Cuixi Villa has an indoor elevator, very convenient for elders going upstairs and down. There are bedrooms on the first floor, so mobility-limited elders can stay downstairs without stairs. The whole house is threshold-free, wheelchairs pass. A clinic is 5 min away by car, and Changtai County Hospital is 20 min.
Q3:What facilities for kids? Safe?
The answer: the villa has a large yard for kids to run and play, a pool (with life rings), a KTV for nursery rhymes, a kitchen for baby food. The yard is enclosed with a locked gate, so kids won't run out. A child safety gate can be installed at the stairs (tell the butler in advance).
Q4:Can a family of 10 fit? How much?
The answer: for 10 people we recommend a 5- or 6-room villa. Cuixi Villa's 5-room is 5,780 yuan weekdays for 5–10 people, 6-room 6,980 yuan for 8–14. About 500–700 yuan/person for 2 days 1 night, including all common facilities. For more people, the 7-room is more spacious.
Q5:Can we cook ourselves? Elders aren't used to outside food.
The answer: Yes, you can cook. The villa has an open kitchen with all pots, pans, and seasonings; gas fee 200 yuan per use. Buy ingredients and cook yourself — make whatever the elders like. Or have the butler buy ingredients, or half self-cook and half order — flexible.

More questions? See the full FAQ below →

📊 Three-Generation Core Data

Max capacity
22 people
Whole villa
7 rooms
Enclosed courtyard
1,200㎡
Elder-friendly
elevator
Per person (weekday)
from ¥409

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Where is best to stay for a three-generation vacation?
For a three-generation vacation we strongly recommend a whole-villa. Reasons: ① the whole family stays together, giving a real reunion feel; ② elders can stay on the first floor with no stairs; ③ kids have a yard and pool to play; ④ a kitchen lets you cook meals suited to elders and kids; ⑤ per-person cost is actually lower than several hotel rooms. Cuixi Villa's 7-bedroom whole-villa especially suits extended families of around 20, with a 1,200㎡ courtyard, slide family room, mountain-spring pool, and more.
What to watch for when choosing a villa for a family reunion?
Key points when choosing a villa: ① first-floor rooms (for elders); ② whether common spaces are large enough (living room, dining, yard); ③ whether dining can be customized (special tastes of elders and kids); ④ safety facilities (pool fencing, stair protection, etc.); ⑤ service quality (butler, can they help arrange). Cuixi Villa does these well — a safe choice.
How to choose a homestay suited to elders and kids?
A homestay for elders and kids must meet both sides' needs: for elders — first-floor room, non-slip floors, light diet, nearby hospital, quiet sleep; for kids — play facilities, solid safety, outdoor space, kids' food options. Few homestays satisfy all; Cuixi Villa is among the better ones.
What room type for a 10-person family gathering?
For a family gathering of around 10, we recommend a 4- or 5-room whole-villa. Cuixi Villa's 4-room is ¥4,980 on weekdays (~10 people), 5-room ¥5,780 (~14). If budget allows, choose a larger one for more spacious, comfortable stays and more common space. 5-room-and-up have slide family rooms kids especially love.
Is two days enough for a three-generation vacation?
Two days one night is a suitable duration — not too rushed, not too long. Arrive the first morning, activities in the afternoon, dinner and chat at night; family activities the next morning, return after lunch. If time allows, three days two nights is of course better, but for most families with work and school, two days one night is the best value.
How to arrange family-reunion dining?
For family reunions we suggest "formal meal + casual" combo: group meal at noon (formal, convenient for elders), BBQ at night (lively, loved by young and kids). Always consider elders' and kids' tastes — prepare some light, soft dishes with congee and soup. Cuixi Villa can customize dining on request; just communicate ahead.
What special care when traveling with elders?
Notes for traveling with elders: ① bring all regular medicines, don't run out; ② don't over-pack the itinerary, leave rest time; ③ stay on the first floor, no stairs; ④ mind diet — light, soft, regular; ⑤ watch slip-and-fall, bathrooms and stairs are high-risk; ⑥ a hospital nearby just in case; ⑦ keep communication open, elders best carry a phone and emergency contacts.
Is it safe to stay at a homestay with kids?
Proper homestays are generally safe, but check the facilities. When choosing with kids: ① pool safety fencing; ② stair protection; ③ padded furniture corners; ④ socket covers; ⑤ floor guards/rails. Cuixi Villa does these child-safety details well, and the slide family room is popular with kids. Of course, parental supervision always comes first.
What activities for a family reunion?
Recommended reunion activities: ① courtyard BBQ (most classic); ② family sports meet (tug-of-war, relay, three-legged); ③ cook together (dumplings, glutinous-rice balls); ④ KTV singing (all ages); ⑤ open-air movie (atmospheric); ⑥ nearby outings (rafting, ancient village, hot spring, chosen by elders' health); ⑦ family portrait (memorable). The key isn't how rich the activities are, but that everyone is together.
How many people is Cuixi Villa suited for family reunions?
A single 7-bedroom villa at Cuixi Villa sleeps up to about 22, suited to family reunions of 15–20. For more (~30), book two adjacent villas (7-room + 6-room). Cuixi Villa has an independent courtyard, living room, dining room, KTV, cinema, pool — complete facilities for the whole family young and old. The butler can also help plan family activities and dining.
If an elder has mobility issues, is there a first-floor room?
Core conclusion: Yes. Cuixi Villa has bedrooms on the first floor, suited to mobility-limited elders.

🛏️ First-floor layouts:
• Cuixi Villa has king rooms on the first floor, elders needn't climb stairs
• A bathroom right next to the room, convenient for night trips
• Whole-house flat floors, no thresholds, wheelchairs can roll
• Indoor elevator, easy to go upstairs too

Accessibility details:
• Bathroom has grab bars and non-slip mats
• No steps from first floor to yard
• Large elevator fits a wheelchair
• Whole-house WiFi, elders can call anytime

🏥 Medical support:
• A clinic in Wu'an Town 5 min away by car
• 20 min to Changtai County Hospital (Grade II, Level A)
• 40 min to a Xiamen Grade III, Level A hospital
• Butler has first-aid kit and common medicines

💡 Tip for elder stays: tell the butler the elder's situation and needs in advance; the butler will arrange as well as possible.
How to make baby food? Is there a crib?
Baby food can be made; a crib needs advance reservation.

🍼 Baby dining:
• Kitchen has full cookware for baby food
• Microwave and fridge to store and heat baby food
• You can bring your own baby-food maker; sockets suffice
• Nearby supermarket for fresh ingredients

🛏️ Baby items:
• Crib: limited, reserve in advance, free
• High chair: available, request ahead
• Bath tub: for bathing baby
• Bottle warmer: bring your own

🔒 Safety:
• Child safety gate at stairs (request ahead)
• Socket covers
• Yard fenced, gate lockable
• Pool has a cover, safe when covered

💡 Tip for baby stays: send the butler a list of needed items in advance; the butler will prepare them.
What activities generally work for a family gathering?
The core of three-generation activity planning: everyone in their place, fun for young and old. A few plans for you.

🌅 Plan 1: Leisure & wellness (suited to elders)
Day1: arrive → lunch → afternoon rest → private-onsen foot soak → yard chat → dinner → movie/chat
Day2: breakfast → nearby stroll → lunch → return

🎉 Plan 2: Lively gathering (suited to large groups with kids)
Day1: arrive → lunch → pool play → KTV/cards → BBQ dinner → yard games
Day2: breakfast → nearby sights → lunch → return

🍳 Plan 3: Family cooking (families who like to cook)
Day1: shop together → cook together → family feast → chat & film
Day2: breakfast → crafts/cards → lunch → return

💡 Activity recommendations:
• Elders: private onsen, cards, chat, nearby stroll, TV
• Young: KTV, pool, BBQ, cinema, mahjong
• Kids: yard play, pool play, arcade, KTV nursery rhymes
• Whole family: BBQ, movie, cooking together, night fireside chat
How does a big family handle meals? Is there a large table?
There is a large dining table; 10–20 people can sit at one table. Dining styles are flexible and varied.

🍽️ Ways to dine:
Cook yourself: open kitchen, large table seats 12–15, cooking together as a family has the best atmosphere
BBQ: courtyard grilling, loved by elders and kids, charcoal fee 100 yuan
Butler-ordered: farmhouse cuisine, hot pot, whole roast lamb, whole-goose feast delivered to the villa
Nearby restaurants: several within a few min by walk or drive

🪑 Table situation:
• Large table: seats 10–12
• Extra tables: small tables can be added, 20 no problem
• High chairs: children's high chairs
• Tableware: enough for 20+

💡 Suggestion: for family gatherings, half self-cook and half order is easiest — cook a few signature dishes and order a few hearty ones, relaxed yet ceremonial.
Can you book for New Year / Spring Festival? Can a reunion dinner be arranged?
Yes. Spring Festival is peak for family gatherings and needs advance booking; the reunion dinner can also be arranged.

🧧 Spring Festival booking:
• Generally book 1–2 months ahead
• Prices rise about 34% at Spring Festival (holiday pricing)
• 7-room villa about 10,980 yuan/night during the festival
• Minimum 2 nights, some dates require 3

🥟 Reunion dinner:
• Cook it yourself: most festive, kitchen suffices, large table fits
• Butler-ordered reunion dinner: farmhouse / seafood / hot pot, delivered to villa
• Whole roast lamb / whole-goose feast: great atmosphere for a crowd, 15–20 just right
• Hot pot: warm in winter, suited to elders and kids

🎊 Festival activities:
• Put up spring couplets, hang lanterns; the butler can help prepare
• Set off fireworks (designated area)
• Watch the Gala on the big screen, sing New Year songs at KTV
• Courtyard BBQ, cards, staying up for the new year

💡 Book early for Spring Festival — the closer it gets, the pricier and roomless.
Can pets come to a family gathering? The elders have a pet.
Yes. Cuixi Villa allows small and medium pets; elders bringing a pet is no problem at all.

🐕 Pet policy:
• Small and medium pets stay free (except Quanjing Courtyard · store-8)
• 1,200㎡ enclosed courtyard where pets can roam freely
• Pets may enter rooms, just not on the beds
• Large pets: consult in advance

👵 Notes for elders with pets:
• Elders' pets are usually well-behaved, little worry needed
• Bring a pet bed and food bowl
• The yard is enclosed, so elders can let pets play freely
• A pet keeps the elder company, making them happier

💡 Many family gatherings bring elders' pets; having a pet relaxes the elder and warms the whole atmosphere. Cuixi's large yard is especially good for pets.
Can a family of around 20 fit? Will it be cramped?
Around 20 people in a 7-room villa is absolutely fine, not cramped. Specific analysis:

🏠 7-room capacity:
• 7 bedrooms: king + twin + family-room combinations
• Suggested occupancy: 10–22
• 20 people: ample per-person space, everyone has a bed
• 200㎡ large living room: not cramped
• 1,200㎡ courtyard: large outdoor space

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 How to allocate 20:
• Elders in first-floor king rooms (1–2)
• Young couples in king rooms (~4 rooms, 8 people)
• Kids in family/twin rooms (~2 rooms, 4–6)
• Extras on sofa or extra beds (300 yuan/person/night)

💰 20-person cost reference:
• Weekday: 8,180 yuan/night, ~409 yuan/person
• Weekend: 9,380 yuan/night, ~469 yuan/person
• Holiday: 10,980 yuan/night, ~549 yuan/person

💡 20 people in the 7-room is just right — enough space, good atmosphere, good per-person value. For 25+, consider two adjacent villas.

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